If you made a mistake in your life and could take it back would you?

If you could relive the past to alter the future would you?

If you didn't get that 100% on that test that your parents had been riding your ass about, would you go back and study more? Cheat? Or tell yourself the answers you got wrong?

Would you go back in time to save a loved one from dying?

Or would you go back in time and start over from the very beginning?

Now, if I were asked those questions I would reply, Hell No.

All the events that have occurred in my life is what has made me the woman I am today.

Also, we as humans don't know how changing even the smallest things could affect our future.

You saving your mother from being on her death bed could alter you meeting the love of your life.

Everything happens for a reason. Weather we see it at that moment or not. 

Every decision big or small, joy filled or teary eyed makes you who you are today.

And being who I am today, I wouldn't change any of it for the world.

You should never have to live with regret or the what-ifs.

Things happen, mistakes are made, people die. 

Its all how you choose to live with the situation and yourself.

And trust me, you will cry, you will stress, and you will need time to process.

But in the end, all of your tragedies in life will come together to make a beautiful song that you can sing to your family and friends.

"Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's an experience." -Victoria Holt